Hi.
I would like to open up a theme which i haven´t seen anywhere.
I´m 16 years old so i´m slowly sailing into the sexual life.I´m pretty sure that girl which loves you will doesn´t mind vitiligo.But what about one-night stands? I dare to say i´m pretty in face (i have vitiligo on body),will girl change her opinion after i will take off my T-shirt?
I´m still a virgin so I would like to know your experiences of having sex with vitiligo.
Thank you.
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I have never had any issues. Although I would be lying if I said I wasnt worried how they would react at first. None of the one night stands seemed to notice and all the girlfriends I have had found it interesting. Most people just need to be educated on what it is, most of the time they think its a birth mark.
Dude, you should not be worried about anything. When it comes to life partner, nothing could in your way. Believe in yourself and you will find a girl who would love you for what you are.
I was always nervous about how people would react to my Vitiligo if I hadn't opened up about it before they were to see it. I would keep the lights off during sex and even a t-shirt on if the window was cracked (how I regret not taking it off sooner). The people you hook up with during a one-night stand aren't going to care if you have dyspigmentation. They are following through with the experience because they want the sex, just like you; and the sex drive is a powerful thing. I've had 1 one-night stand and trust me, he did not complain, stare, or even ask after the fact. One-night stands are to let loose and be free, living in that moment, don't get hung up on your Vitiligo then! :) Just be safe and protect yourself.
I have it on my hands and a bit under my arm but if I had a new fella and saw he had white patches on his bod I wouldn't for a minute think differently of him. Now if he had a very small manhood that might perhaps disappoint Me more!!!