Almost everyone with Vitiligo (including me) curse their life for having this ab'normality'. We feel this is the worst thing that can happen to someone and start considering ourselves outliers. Slowly but surely we get frustrated with our lives and will start feeling jealous of the people who we deem to be perfect. Eventually we then become socially challenged and it might even get to an extent where some cowardly bastards will start having suicidal tendencies.
Ok people, what we are going thru sucks big time but do you really think what we have is the worst thing possible ?? Absolutely NOT and trust me when I say this !! There are millions of people all across the globe who go thru much more than we do and they are still leading their life without any cribbing. Is our problem worse than that of a 21 year girl who was a victim of an acid attack and whose face was deformed completely? Is our problem worse than a 14 year kid's who is being forced into flesh trade by torturing her in ways that are more than inhumane ? Is our problem worse than people who lost their limbs and do not have anyone to take care AND without a wheelchair to move around ? Is our problem worse than any of the horrible medical conditions one could hope are non-existent in this world ?
If your answer for all these questions is a 'yes', then you have every right to feel bad, put your head in the toilet pot and start crying. But, if your answer for these questions is 'may be not' then I can assure you my friends that you have the right attitude to get over this.
We are just normal human beings like anyone else with just some 'special effects'. No one is perfect. You might see a super hot girl or a drool worthy handsome guy around you but if you go ask them if they have any problems in their lives, I bet their answer will be a sure YES. So, lets stop thinking that we are the only ones with any problems. There are bigger problems out their and you should feel lucky that you just have to deal with these 'special effects'
Go shatter those psychological walls you built around yourself and enjoy your life to the fullest !!
Cheers !!
P.S: If you agree with me, just reply to this post with a BIG smiley :)))
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... but at the same time, it's alright to feel bad some days. Everyone does that and we're no different. Just don't stay down, make believe you're Rocky Balboa and keep on getting up again ;)
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Good attitude Bhaskar, and you're right, people with Vitiligo aren't as bad off as they may think. Good luck to you....
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:) wow well said