Posted by Emma on January 12, 2015 at 1:39am in Main
So i was ina relationship when i first got vitiligo so he knew all about it. Since then we have broken up and i am in the start of a new relationship with someone. My vitiligo has spread significantly and covers around 75% of me although not in places you can see on a day to day basis during the winter also i am pale so not too visible on my hands. I know eventually things will progress and i really need some advice on how to bring up the vitiligo and explain it to him??
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see it so light.I be gone through this. God give u strength dear
In my opinion, the only things that really work are:
- Never show self-pity (since you are not better or worse than anyone because of vit).
- Make him feel comfortable showing that you are comfortable with your vit.
Besides, vit is a super-power like Friend Mike Salvo said. It's hard, but we should learn how to love it to understand how to use this power.
Please check the following (specially the second half of the post):
http://drbenkim.com/vitiligo-natural-management.htm
I would try to wear clothes that make it visible and wait the subject come up naturally. Hopefully it won't be any issue...
It has to be natural, so that you will be showing that you are comfortable with.
Avoid things like: - Honey, I would like to tell something about me...
You are a normal / regular person!. Just act like this.
As a matter of fact, we are super-powerful...haha