hey people , the problem that i wana share is the annoying process of finding a descent looking girl , who wont scared of ur skin or anything else for that matter. I had vitiligo for 6 years now and i am on top of the world,,, i got everything i wanted , i lost weight , got straight A's and then most of all i found my long lost confidence which i desperately needed...the only thing i cant seem to do , is to find a girl that truly understands me....i have a lot of friends in school and i can easily say that i am the most flashiest guy in school , all the girls say hi to me and they cant have enough ,,,,,,i am soo confused.............
CAN SUMONE HELP ME IN THIS THING
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hahah thnx lida :D
the harder to u try to get something, the easier it is ti miss it. chill, relax, keep on living, and love will find u. ;-)
thanx marty
I use me as an example am one lady men said a lot of things to when I was still traumatized and depressed, I can remember in about four diff occasions men saying oh poor beautiful girl, would've love to date this girl if not for this patches (sounded as if I had no choice in the decision on whom to date). Others gave me me that attitude of am doing you a favor by being friends with you. Do you know one of the things I refuse to allow all through then....it was that attitude...though at a point i was going crazy I needed someone that can understand me deeply and I ended up with a guy I couldn't have had as a mere friend, but as I got myself back, I called him and ask how he got into my life and ended it up and there.
Today all those that felt they were doing me a favor then has tried everything to even become casual friends with me, how did I achieve this, I forgot about them all and focused on my new found passionate work (Running VITSAF, a foundation on Vitiligo Support and Awareness), i got my groove back, confidence like never before, boldness that you could touch and Self Acceptance in the highest other. Now I am the one who is not ready for a relationship, they cant stop coming.
Be Positive, Accept yourself, Love urself unconditionally and focus on what you are doing, they will flock the way u never expected
You need a good cologne. As P.Diddy once put it, "You're not done getting dressed until you smell good."
Ralph Lauren Romance has some kind of pheremones in it or something. When I worked at a fragrance counter, I had to stop women from huffing this stuff! It was and still is amazing. Issey Miyake Pour Homme and Diesel Only The Brave are also good choices.
And if your on a budget, AXE Chocolate whatever that stuff is.
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